Polyhymnia · Daily Eloquencea Pyrrhic victory
A win so costly it might as well be a defeat.
The whole effect is a paradox folded into two words: a triumph named after the very man it ruined.
Because the irony lives in the proper noun, the speaker never has to argue the cost — 'Pyrrhic' has already conceded it.
That's what makes it bite harder than 'a costly win': it doesn't describe the price, it summons the ghost who paid it.
“We got the apology in writing, sure — and we torched the one supplier who actually shipped on time. Pyrrhic victory.”
A small-business owner tallying up what it took to win a dispute with a vendor.
“She won the argument and lost the room; everyone went quiet and the dinner never really came back. A Pyrrhic victory if there ever was one.”
A friend recounting how a family dinner went sideways.
It only lands when the win is genuine but the cost outran it — don't reach for it to describe a clean win you simply disliked, or an outright loss. And because it's a learned word, dropping it into light banter can read as showing off rather than as the precise call it actually is.
A Pyrrhic victory is the win that ruins the winner — two words doing the work of a whole tragedy.
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It's named for King Pyrrhus, who reportedly looked over a battlefield he'd just won and figured one more win like that would finish him.
“One more such victory and we are undone.”
PIRR-ik — rhymes with 'lyric'; the stress lands hard on the first syllable, and the word trips people up far more than the idea does.
- · a hollow victory
- · won the battle, lost the war
- · a costly win